Male Brazilian Hair Removal and 9 Tips to a Better Experience (For Everyone)
Nervous about getting a male brazilian hair removal service because you're afraid of getting an erection or liking the touch of a professional even though her job is ripping hair out of your body? Well, you're not alone. Many men have the same thoughts, but it is how you handle yourself before and during the appointment that can influence whether or not the hair removal professional will continue offering this service to you or even other men. Here are five reasons why a Hair Removal Professional will do a consultation with a potential male brazilian client prior to sugaring or waxing him. (All of these experiences have happened to me.)
Male clients talk about their penis and scrotum during their service and call it names such as berries and twig. Women do not talk about their genitalia at their hair removal appointments in this way. I think men tend to do this because they are nervous.
Male clients tell stories about going to massage parlors and getting happy endings. I had a client explain to me women could not help themselves and enjoyed giving him happy endings. In my experience, this is unlikely. I have been to a cheap massage place and in the rooms there were notes saying, “We do not give happy endings.” These poor women have been subjected to it so much that there is now a sign at their workplace.
Male clients get an erection and it lasts the whole service and the penis pulsates. Not many hair removal professionals sign up for this. Just because the Internet told you it is okay to get an erection while getting your hair removed does not mean it is okay to make someone feel uncomfortable. An erection or semi erection can actually help when sugaring the base of the penis for a short amount of time by making the skin taut. But otherwise, take care of business before the service if you know this is gonna happen, or think of something else. I have male clients and they are able to control their penis muscle with their brain by thinking of something else.
Male clients make comments like, “It’s not fair I have to get naked, but you don’t.” Do you tell your doctor this when going in for a physical? This behavior is not okay. A professional is making money removing your unwanted hair, not satisfying their clients desires.
Male clients grab or smack me while on the table and then get offended when I say something about it. It is not okay to touch a professional in an intimate place just because you are naked in front of them. Again, you came to get cleaned up for hygiene purposes, not for pleasure.
Men think it's okay to make comments about my looks. I had one man tell me he likes my hair long because before when it was short, I looked like a boy with tits.
A male client said I must like what I do because I was smiling. This is just weird. Yes, I am passionate about my work, that does not mean I like hurting people.
Brazilian services are the backbone of many hair removal businesses. Most of my clients are women. In my particular case, hair removal services for male private parts are 10% of my business. Men need to respect women and their career choices, just like sugar professionals respect the clients needs to have their hair removed for whatever their reasons are. Over the 13 years I have been in business, men have acted so improper I now have a consultation with male clients before they get a Brazilian to make sure they are coming in for hygienic reasons and not for pleasure.Hair Removal Specialists are Estheticians. Estheticians have to pass a State Board test to get their license and renew it every two years. In order to run a business, they have to get an Establishment License and pay City, State, and Federal taxes. Estheticians have to follow the same rules as any small business and are not just an object to be used for male fantasies. Do you go to your barber and expect him to give you a hand job because he works with his hands. No. So, why would any man expect an Esthetician to do it? It does not make sense. Men pushing sex or making sexual innuendos is traumatizing. If a man thinks it is alright to push himself on a professional because “that's her job,” this man is a creep. One negative experience with one male brazilian client changes how a woman looks at men and makes it harder for male clients to find a professional for hair removal purposes.
Hair removal is why clients come to see me. Hair and everything that comes with it is the topic, not desperate acts to be touched. Just because a person handles your privates does not mean it's okay to be a predator. Going to a dentist and getting your teeth cleaned does not mean you also get a makeout session with the Dentist or Dental Assistant just because they work with their hands in your mouth.Numerous Estheticians specializing in hair removal, do just that, specialize in hair removal, not fantasy world. Many hair or hair alternative professionals such as Estheticians, Cosmetologists, and Barbers work for years to perfect their talents, just like electrologists, nurses, construction workers, doctors, tattoo artists, Permanent Makeup Artists, and pharmacists.
Hair Removal, whether you get regular haircuts or get body hair removed, is a big deal for people. Hair gained or lost on a regular basis boosts mood and productivity. Many professionals in the hair care industry specialize in Customer Service. It’s important to understand body hair, just like head hair, needs to be maintained. Just because we did not grow up learning about self care or body hair maintenance, does not mean we can make it something it is not. I speak with clients all day that are so grateful to have found someone to help maintain their body hair health. Sugar hair removal exfoliates the skin, allowing it to breath better and new hair growth is finer and softer. The end goal is making your skin and hair more manageable. Hair on the skin and head can be irritating and a distraction, especially if you are prone to skin issues such as ingrown hairs, boils, keratosis pilaris, excessive sweating, or not liking body hair. These are all issues I help clients with.
If you want help maintaining your body hair, respect the professional because they are helping you, and you are going to them for their specialty. Be respectful, hair removal is a team effort.
Are you scared to get your hair removed but can’t handle the amount of hair you have? Here are some tips before booking a Sugar Hair Removal Experience.
Be prepared, if you have a lot of unruly hair. If you look like a brillo pad with a bush,trim it down. Use a 4 guard on your trimmers and trim all your pubis mound, penis and scrotum. Trimming with a 4 guard maintains the hair so it does not get caught in the sugar and also lets the Specialist see the hair growth patterns.
Trim the hair towards the hair growth patterns. Touch yourself down there. This may seem silly to say yet I see a lot of neglect when it comes to male and female genitalia. People do not think of their genitalia and they sometimes are detached from it. For women it may belong to a man, for a man it may just be something for sexual purposes. The hair on your genitalia is usually covered with numerous layers of clothing causing it to get moist, smell, hold bacteria, and get sweaty with hair and musk. Some people have big bellies and cannot look at that area, that does not mean you cannot love the area.
Ease into it. You don't have to get all your hair removed from the genetilia area. This is really important because of the pain factor. Sugar hair removal, if done correctly, is removing hair by the root. If the hair is removed by the root the hair that grows back in will be softer and finer leading you to a hair maintenance routine versus the overwhelming feeling of being trapped in your body hair.
Leave all the hair on the pubic bone. This is important because this is the most painful part of the hair removal process. Brazilian services range from all hair removed to only removing hair from the base of the penis, scrotum, and butthole. If you are not consistent, don’t add the extra pain and upkeep to your private parts by removing all your hair. The pubic mound is the area above the penis and goes across where the belt hits you. Two reasons I don’t recommend removing this hair is one as stated, it hurts, and two, due to lots of layers covering this area it is prone to in-growns. In-growns can become infected and cause more issues like scarring and damaging the hair follicle due to picking or tweezing.
Like the hair gone, but not the Sugarist? Go find another Hair Removal specialist. If possible find a professional that listens to your concerns, tell them if you are sensitive or prone to in-growns. You know your body hair and skin more than they do.
Get your hair removed on a monthly basis. Hair removal done on a consistent basis lessens the pain with every hair removal experience. Hair removal done on an inconsistent basis will be uncomfortable every time, especially if you don’t get it done very often. If you do not want to get hair removed consistently trim in between using a guard.
Take care of your body hair. You don’t have to remove all of your hair and removing only the areas that cause most of the stress may ease your mind.
Exfoliate and moisturize your hair and body. Scrub the dead skin off, using an exfoliating mitt or a chemical leave on exfoliant. Use a water based moisturizer to help keep the skin soft. Removing dead skin and moisturizing the skin where your hair has been removed allows the next hair growth cycle to grow up and out of your skin with less in-growns or irritations.
Take a shower as close to your appointment time as possible. Coming into your appointment with a clean canvas makes the experience more comfortable for you and the professionals. This means there is no unwanted odor, there is no need to remove dirt and debris from the body and the professional will appreciate that you were prepared for your appointment.
The behavior of male clients over my career has made me less tolerant of men. I have no desire to be tricked or convinced that I must do what the male client wants because he feels uncomfortable being so vulnerable. All my clients that get brazilians, female and male, are 18 years or older. Act like an adult. Be on time, make sure you are clean, read on my website how to prepare for a sugaring appointment, and let the Sugarist know if you have any issues like sensitive skin, are on acne medication, or have a low pain tolerance. The ultimate goal is to help you find the sweet side of hair removal by maintaining your body hair and calming the mind.